I feel like all of my good qualities are just 'pending approval'. My intelligence is still just relative to juco and uofi, so I could just be a grade-inflation wonder. My 'goodguyness', which often I don't believe myself, is still just hypothetical. The most anyone could say is, "I think you'd be a good boyfriend." That's because no one really knows. And that is, of course, because of my big fat lack of long term relationships. My wit and humor, well, everyone else may doubt that it exists put I know I'm very witty and humorous, so I'm pleased with that aspect of myself. But the intelligence and goodguyness are still hypothetical. Only time will tell.