What is the argument for repeatedly forgiving an individual's flaws? A related question: What the fuck is wrong with people?

I'm not great at anything, and I have no great qualities. But I still manage to live my life as best I can. I don't think this is a big accomplishment. I think attempting maximizing who you are is the least anyone should be expected of an individual. Actually maximizing one's potential is too rare to hope for, but merely trying seems like a prerequisite for being a decent human being.

Whatever. I just have this screwy vision of how people should live their lives, and it pisses me off when people don't share my vision. llalalallalalalallalalala

I am actually content, maybe thats why I haven't been posting.